Interpret This
What does it mean when a guy you met only once exchanges frequent text messages with you for a week, sends you a cake on your birthday, stops texting you for three months even though you didn't have an argument, texts you again, sends you another cake for no reason, and then stops texting you once more?
I don't get it. And I'm beginning to suspect that he doesn't get it either -- meaning he's not really thinking about what he's doing or why he's doing it... it's just one of those spur of the moment things. Either that, or he's being pushed into doing it.
People can be strange sometimes.
Tags: Relationships
Posted by CF at 2:20 PM
2 Comments
three months is a long time! and you don't just send out cakes to people unless it's their birthday and/or they're your very close friends (kahit nga ako di ko magawa yun sa mga friends ko on ordinary days)! there can be a dozen interpretations, but the thing with us girls is we love doing these kinds of things; i.e. to interpret. we tend to go "cerebral" when stuff like this happens. sometimes we even over-analize every action and nuance (yes, i'm relating this to personal experience. haha). i think the safest thing to do is to not think about na lang and simply let things flow. that way you won't expect(that is, if you like this guy) or get yourself all worked up trying to figure out what he's really up to.
just my two cents' worth of unsolicited girl-to-girl advice.
:-)
I can't say I like the guy, since I barely know him. We only met once. So I'm sure he barely knows me also! haha!
But I like your advice. It's better nga not to think about it until his intent becomes clearer, or until it progresses beyond this weird text-silence-cake stage. LOL!
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